| Location | Bellshill |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 24/05/2000 |
| Date of Death | 24/05/2000 |
| Visitors | 1,308 since 16/05/2009 |
| Creator |
IN MY LIFE SO BRIEFLY IN MY HEART FOREVER
MY DARLING LITTLE ANGEL BABY JAY
BORN ASLEEP ON THE 24th MAY 2000
NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK OF YOU
A tiny life is growing
Inside a cosy place
His arms and legs are flailing
A smile is on his face.
His mother feels a tiny kick
Upon her rounded tummy
and waits impatiently for the day
When she becomes a mummy.
The baby’s smile is fading
But his eyes are open wide
He knows that he’ll be leaving soon
But will never see outside.
There aren’t so many kicks now
In fact there’s none at all
Gran says that baby’s sleeping
and keeps knitting up his shawl.
His life is draining quickly
But no-one knows a thing
A tiny smile fleets his face
When he hears his mother sing.
He knows that he’ll remember her
and the things he heard her say
Peacefully and happily
The baby drifts away.
Mummy knows that something’s wrong
and is at the clinic before too long
A scan is done and doctor says
“I’m sorry, baby’s gone”.
The grief is overwhelming
The sadness takes its toll
Friends and family gather round
As he’s buried in his shawl.
As time goes by and lapses on
His mother sheds a tear
and hears these words inside her head
“Mum I’m always here,
I’ll never ever leave you
Although you may not know
I’ll be beside you every day
Through laughter, joy and woe.
You’ll never need to miss me
For I am in your heart
and though we’re in two different worlds
We’ll never be apart”.
happy birthday my precious boy xx
As we wake up in the morning
and your not here to see,
we grasp for some reality...
that our dreams can never be.
We'll bake a cake & buy balloons,
we'll burn a candle too.
We'll play your music, look at pictures
and shed some tears for you.
We'll imagine what the day would bring,
if only you weren't gone.
You'd run and laugh, and jump about,
we'd sing the birthday song.
You should be here today,
excited as can be...
Sifting through the toys and wrap,
bursting forth with glee...
But God had other plans for you,
these plans, we'll never know.
Today, the candle burns,
...with no tiny lips to blow.
We'll do our best to make it through,
this day we meet with dread.
We'll do this all for you, my love...
on this road of grief we tread.
So on this day... my precious son,
You're birthday number eleven...
your in our hearts and in our thoughts
....as we send our love to you in heaven
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The tiny rosebud God picked to bloom in Heaven.
The master gardener from heaven above
Planted a seed in the garden of Love,
And from it there grew a rosebud small
That never had time to open at all.
For God in his perfect and all-wise way
Chose this rose for his heavenly bouquet,
And great was the joy of this tiny rose
To be the one our Father chose
To leave earth’s garden
For one on high
where roses bloom always and never die.
So, while you can’t see your precious rose bloom,
You know the great gardener from the upper room
Is watching and tending this wee rose with care,
Tenderly touching each petal so fair.
So think of your darling with the angels above,
Secure and contented and surrounded with love,
And remember God blessed and enriched your lives too,
For in dying your darling brought heaven closer to you.
Helen Steiner Rice
my son x
I was thinking how different life is for me
And about the things that will never be
To watch you grow into that fine young man
For me is not part of the plan
I realize my life will never be the same
Even though I carry on with life's little game
I can't go back to where I was before
That part of my life is now a closed door
But in spite of the pain I must endure
I want you to know one thing for sure
I wouldn't trade places with any other on earth
And I'm proud to be the one who gave you birth
I live with tragedy and sorrow, that's true
But also a great Love have I shared with you
For you've left a purpose for your Mom and Dad
To let other know of the son we had
I want you to know your story will be told
And others will know I've been touched by Gold
happy birthday
As we wake up in the morning
and your not here to see,
we grasp for some reality...
that our dreams can never be.
We'll bake a cake & buy balloons,
we'll burn a candle too.
We'll play your music, look at pictures
and shed some tears for you.
We'll imagine what the day would bring,
if only you weren't gone.
You'd run and laugh, and jump about,
we'd sing the birthday song.
You should be here today,
excited as can be...
Sifting through the toys and wrap,
bursting forth with glee...
But God had other plans for you,
these plans, we'll never know.
Today, the candle burns,
...with no tiny lips to blow.
We'll do our best to make it through,
this day we meet with dread.
We'll do this all for you, my love...
on this road of grief we tread.
So on this day... my precious son,
You're birthday number ten...
your in our hearts and in our thoughts
....as we send our love to you
miss u sooo much jay xxx
Angels Day
A special day for a special angel today u will ten a big boy angel and always in ur mummys heart and in everyones thoughts. if u see mummy cry its ok its only mummy showin love for lil Jay x x x x x x x x x x
Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
A Birthday In Heaven - Author Unknown
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
rest in peace my little angel
its been a long time now since god decided that he wanted you as one of his angels ,i was devasted but i have learned to cope the only thing that keeps me going is knowing that you are with your brother declan and that you have each other,i miss you with all my heart and soul .sometimes when i look at tony i wonder if there might just be a part of you and declan in him but il never know .your sisters and wee brother keep me going if it wasnt for them i would be lost . this time of year is hard they say it gets better as the years go on but it doesnt the pain is still as bad you just learn to cope with it better.i miss you so very much and one day we will be together again until then you are in my thoughts and dreams.love you always and forever gone but not forgotten mummy xxxx
missing u xx
We are connected, My child and I,
by an invisible cord, not seen by the eye.
It's not like the cord that connects
us 'til birth
This cord can't be seen by any on Earth.
This cord does its work right from the start.
It binds us together, attatched to my heart.
I know that it's there, though no one can see,
The invisible cord from my child to me.
The strength of this cord is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed, it can't be denied.
It's stronger than any cord man could create,
It withstands the test, can hold any weight.
And though you are gone,
Though you are not here with me,
The cord is still there, but no one can see.
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline, as never before.
I am thankful that God connects us this way,
A mother and child--Death can't take it away!
No one remembers,
I cannot say why
Only thing I keep thinking
Is that nobody tried

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